sex

Ask the Sexpert: Is Lesbian Bed Death Real?

As someone newly out and on the prowl, is this a real issue I need to be concerned with, or is it a lesbian urban legend?

The Great Outdoors

A reader asks for some tips and tricks for outdoor sex activities

Sexpert: Are Sex Toys Salvageable?

After we broke up, I kept all the toys, because I was the one who had paid for them. Now that I’m dating a new cutie, I’m wondering if I can share those toys with him, or if I need to start from scratch.

Sexpert: Lube is Love

You know, I love this question because I love lube, I think you should love lube, and honestly, one of my few “rules” to having good sex is lube is love.

One size-queen does not fit all

So the next time you find yourself in a room full of nakedness, remember that we all come in many different shapes and sizes. One size does not fit all. But it sure is fun trying.

Monogamy mess up

None of these things were excuses for my past behavior. Rather they were insights to help me figure out how to do things differently.

The best chemistry: The science of falling in lust and love

How a cascade of brain chemicals makes romantic attraction one of the most powerful experiences you’ll ever have

Sex on the fly

I told my boyfriend that I was going to go to the restroom and that he should wait 20 seconds and then join me.

Ask the Sexpert: Your payoff from the money shot

it seems as though the cum shot permeates all types of sex, queer, straight, gay and everything else.

Ask the Sexpert: A potential other couple

Dear Shanna, My girlfriend and I have been together a few years and the sex is fantastic. We’ve become friends with another couple (also lesbian) and there seems to be chemistry between us. I know the term “swinging” is somewhat outdated, but I think it’s the best word for what we’re interested in. Is it a good idea? If so, how do we move forward?