relationships

Ask the Sexpert: Goo in the boo

When I watch porn, the guys frequently use spit before penetrating each other anally. My boyfriend and I have tried this, but it is still a little painful. Does spitting actually accomplish anything? Any suggestions on how to make it hu

Losing interest after a one-night-stand

Dear Brent,

Everybody agrees that the guy who has sex with you once then loses all interest is an asshole. I am that guy.

No glove, no love: Women can use safer sex too

Outside of condoms – primarily spoken about in regards to penis-in-vagina intercourse, and perhaps occasionally anal intercourse – safer sex talks frequently seem to cover very few things that can in fact make sex safer, such as dams (sometimes called dental dams), gloves, and sterilizable toys.

Ask the sexpert: Can bisexuals be monogamous?

Dear Shanna: I “came out” last summer and had a good and wild time exploring…

Proud of being gay

Dear Brent, I’m comfortable with being gay, but why be ‘proud’ of it? I’m not a fan of gay bars or people who wear their sexuality on their sleeve.

Tales of a serial nomad

I pride myself on not having overly sentimental attachments to stuff and even to people, because I’ve picked up, packed up, and shipped out so many times.

From the Editor: Be true to yourself to find love

Summer is in full throttle now and the dry Colorado heat beckons pool parties, summer adventures, patio barbecues and a frisky side of our human nature. It’s the most engaging time of the year, many will say, to be on the prowl – single and looking.

Single and Looking: Local lesbians and gays on love and dating

I’m looking for a man who truly gets me, as well as respects my choices in how I live my life.

Sharing is caring: Monogamous couples could benefit from polyamorous communication skills

But for all, the number-one priority is communication, according to relationship and intimacy therapist Dr. Jenni Skyler of Boulder.

HeinzeSight: Dating without drama

Dear Brent, I have recently become single after a  four-year relationship and am enjoying it.  I’ve had some great dates and sex, but  I’m not ready or interested in pursuing another relationship