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Perfect your online profile

Dear Brent, I am really not finding the people online who I want to connect…

Stuff Gay People Like: The new guy

Gay men come from all backgrounds; some are raised by pothead hippies, others grow up…

A different kind of label

As a young adult, I didn’t feel comfortable in my own skin. My thin, bony…

Dealing with deceit

Dear Brent, Why are there so many liars in the gay community? There are many…

The making of a badass

Ever since the kids in middle school called me “fairy,” I have longed for the…

Stuff Gay People Like: Fancy Groceries

Somewhere between a health freak and a trainwreck is the ordinary person, following a rule…

Stuff Gay People Like: Theater

Acting is a matter of survival for gay teenagers. Since the first time he closed…

Walk like it matters

I remember my first AIDS Walk like it happened just a week or two ago,…

Scott McGlothlen: Bleed like me

As I stared at the veins under my pale skin, I listened close to these three simple words over and over again.

I would never bleed the same again.

Stuff Gay People Like: Sexting

If you ask youth group leaders and high school guidance counselors, a crisis is rocking…