sexuality
Civil unions in Colorado mean that LGBT relationships are more out in the open than ever before, but we were getting ‘married’ in the eyes of each other and our communities long before the state recognized same-sex relationships. Out Front will highlight a series of LGBT couples who have jumped the broom, tied the knot, got hitched or took the plunge – Danielle Jordan and her wife Cyndi Adams tell us their story first.
Dear Brent,
I used to love online socializing, but I’m concerned now that it has become the new norm in the gay scene.
I worry that we are all so disconnected and have lost the ability to connect on any organic level. I also worry for bars, clubs, and other gay establishments because people aren’t going out as much. Is human contact going to be reduced to one hour of chatting online, 15 minutes of sex, and then back to solitude?
In this culture, evidently it’s the idea of the career or life that would be risked by this sort of expressive freedom – not the digital record that would put it at risk – that feels like ‘baggage.’
I always assumed that people went into porn, and even as far as going ‘gay for pay’ because of the money. But after finding an article on Forbes and looking at the amount of serious ‘physical’ labor that goes into porn, I’m starting to think that money and being broke might not really factor into it.
Literary erotica has come a long way since Harlequin novels. Perhaps the recent novel Fifty Shades of Grey by London-based author Erika Mitchell (pen name E. L. James) just crossed your mind.
My 10-year lesbian partner and I have always had amazing sex. My sex drive has always been on the high side, but as we’ve progressed in our relationship, the amount has diminished, as seems to usually be the case. There have been been many disappointing times I thought we’d be intimate but it never occurred. I’m frustrated at not ever being able to decide if or when we have sex. Do you have any suggestions?
Try to keep score this week and see how many of these you can identify from yourself and others around you.
Generation Z is hornier than ever. And then you add in Generations X and Y and we have literally, a cluster fu*k. So where do we go from here?
I am happily in a long term, monogamous relationship, but my partner is in the military and is deployed. I don’t believe in masturbation – any suggestions on how to relieve the tension?
