sexuality

Ten cliché’s you shouldn’t dismiss

Cliché’s are often met with skepticism, seen as pointless just because they’re overused. But some contain truth – motivating support to keep us challenged and improving our lives.

How do I tell my boyfriend he’s let himself go?

My partner of 10 years has been gaining weight and it’s getting harder to stay sexually interested in him. I keep slipping these hints that I’m going to start working out or eating healthier, suggesting he could support me by doing it too. So far it’s not working – he just says ‘that’s great’ and stuffs another slice of pizza in his mouth.

From The Editor: To each our own

Who are we when it comes to the platform we provide the community – when it comes to sex?

Dayton Egloff, Mr. Leather Colorado

Pulling on a ‘bar casual’ ensemble for Out Front’s photo shoot at the Eagle, Egloff explained his attire starting with the black flogger he carried – an intimidating-looking device resembling a leather pom-pom. ‘It’s pretty standard,’ Egloff said, while the leather gauntlet wrapped around his wrist was, he said, ‘on the left because I’m a top.’

A Walk on the Wild Side: Enthusiasts describe kink culture in their own words

Denver has quite a diverse and thriving BDSM and fetish scene. From the Denver Eagle (a leather bar) to Thunder in the Mountains (a yearly kink conference and event) and the upcoming Exile Party at Tracks to the multiple public and private dungeons, Colorado has its fair share of hot spots for kinksters, fetishists and those who enjoy exploring the various facets of BDSM.

Ask the Sexpert: Beyond Strap ons

I’ve been with my girlfriend for a few years now. I love her a lot, and everything is great … except for I’m getting really sick of having to strap it on. I mean, I like some hot harness action as much as anyone else, but it seems as though that is all she likes. She says it’s not “real” sex unless there is penetration. Am I stuck with this, or is there hope in diversifying our sex life?

Coming out as kinky

For some people, admitting to an interest in kink can parallel coming out a gay, transgender, or HIV-positive. All can trigger aspects of personal shame, fear and embarrassment, or may cause people to reject you for something you’re working to embrace about yourself.

The world of dating sites

Whether these people are searching for a quick sex fling or a partnership of a more long-term nature, dating sites have become popular in the queer community for a variety of reasons.

Top 10 most offensive things to say to a gay man

10. You’re a slut / whore / skank / dirty bird / big pickle diver

Ask the Sexpert: Goo in the boo

When I watch porn, the guys frequently use spit before penetrating each other anally. My boyfriend and I have tried this, but it is still a little painful. Does spitting actually accomplish anything? Any suggestions on how to make it hu