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lesbian life, sex, sexuality, living and issues for lesbian women

Get over your embarrassment about asking for help

The heart of embarrassment is the fear of being judged: we think someone is going to think something about us. We think that if we lack something – some knowledge or ability to do something on our own – it’s considered a weakness. It’s as ridiculous as it sounds.

Of love and bondage

Every relationship is unique. Every relationship requires concessions – you are willing to do whatever it takes to show your love, and your partner will do the same.

When the politics hit home for children of LGBT parents

I encouraged my daughter to share her story and her feelings by going to the teacher or the counselor to express how the actions of her classmates make her feel and her disappointment when nothing is done. What a difference words make.

Anything boys can do girls can do better

Here are some of my thoughts, and tips, on how we gals can, with elegance and ease, handle our booze and look good doing it

Learning to let the drama go

I love being a lesbian. Every day is an adventure through the emotional ups and downs of the women of my community. But we must collectively admit that we can be incredibly dramatic. When I get on a plane, leaving behind people and things I would have been involved in, I get the opportunity for perspective.

‘A Journey to Myself:’ Surgery is only one step in transitioning

Brianna Matthews’ pre or post-operative status as a transwoman was never a consideration. She is a woman, period. She is one of the people in my life who truly helped me understand how someone could actually be born in a body that is not congruous with the person inside and the courage it takes to create that congruity.

Parenting with love

It wasn’t until I developed a relationship with my children that I realized how much I really loved each one of them for who they were. Five different personalities, five different reflections.

Should we stick to our guns?

Out Front’s Lebanese Lesbian talks gun control.

Being Jody Foster

For Jodie Foster and probably many others, ‘coming out’ is mostly for actual circle of friends and family, not the general public.

‘Counting the ways:’ Queer and same-sex love stories

Feb. 6, 2013 Cover Story – Real local stories from Colorado LGBT couples in love