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Living as free as my hair

When I cut it to a chin-length bob after a bad break-up, people freaked out. Basically, no one liked it, and I would wake up the middle of the night reaching for my long hair, shocked to remember that it was gone. Was I not “pretty” anymore? So, I grew it back.

Speak OUT: two’s company, but three’s more fun

My lifestyle is misunderstood by most, especially in our lesbian community: my girlfriend and I have been in a successful polyamorous relationship for three years. It’s possible, I can assure you.

Vie-Carpenter: bringing back bliss

As members of the LGBT community we’re expected to be happy. We are gay after…

Finding God in Change

With a last name like Salam, I’m frequently asked if I’m Muslim. The answer is no, but I gave it a try when I was 10. As a young girl I watched my grandparents and uncles pray – it was a mesmerizing, intriguing process even though I had no understanding of God.

The trouble with rebounds

A well known joke – Q: What does a gay guy bring to a second…

Seeing Stars: an immigrant’s chart of the sky

How often do you think about the stars and the universe, and their role in…

The Avenue Theatre’s ‘String of Pearls’ wows female audiences

Some plays are meant for specific audiences. String of Pearls, at the Avenue Theatre through…

Reminding ourselves ‘this is about love

Coming out to myself took a sensible, ahem, 20 years. Coming out to everyone else…

Your life’s Feng-Shui: schedules keep the balance ‘just right’

I’m officially out of balance right now. I spend a lot of time out and…

Coming Clean: growing up gay and Arab in the South

What’s gay, Arab, and spent impressionable adolescence in a backwards Kentucky town? OK, I’m more…