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Fetish, BDSM and kink

Heinzesight: Does it really get better?

Growing up can be extremely hard, and life doesn’t necessarily get better. Should we wait around for it to get better, get angry, give up, or take a more active role in improving our lives? I think it’s more important to tell people not to give up instead of instilling hope that life will improve over time.

Ask the sexpert: How do I stay safe when it comes to anal play?

Dear Shanna: I’m starting to explore anal play, and have not yet bought toys; I’m…

10 ways to increase your chances of connecting

This time of year signifies the end of 2011 and all of our hopes for…

10 ways to destroy an intimate encounter

We have all been disappointed when we finally get to the point of getting it…

Gay discrimination: is preferring one race to another racist or just taste?

Dear Brent, I am an African American gay man. I have a very good job,…

Married but searching for answers

Dear Brent, I’m in a long-term heterosexual relationship, but I know I am gay. I…

Extreme sex, extreme communication

There are many forms of sexual contact and what is considered extreme to one person…

The more the merrier, but remember to set boundaries

Many of us grow up with the idea that we should find our one-and-only soul…

Let’s talk about sex, baby

Sex is a word fraught with many connotations. Are you having it? If so, who…

Perfect your online profile

Dear Brent, I am really not finding the people online who I want to connect…