Ask the Sexpert

Ask The Sexpert: Strapping it on in style

Taking the time to actually strap-on your toys can be arduous. Luckily, Out Front’s sexpert Shanna Katz offers some solutions.

Ask the Sexpert: Bringing a woman home to meet the kids

Dear Shanna — I have two kids ages 7 and 12 from my previous marriage.…

Sexpert: More of a good thing

I want to try some new and different things with my partner of 8 years, but I’m not sure how to bring it up without it seeming unhappy with our current sex life (I’m not).

Sexpert: Addressing disability with insight

People with disabilities, like every other marginalized group (trans* folks, people of color, non-English speakers, etc.) are just as sexually diverse as the rest of the population.

Ask the Sexpert: E–jill–ulation explained

I’ve received not one, not a few, but over a dozen questions on the concept of “female ejaculation,” or ejaculation from bodies that don’t have penises.

Ask the Sexpert: (Real) lesbian porn

I have good news for you — there is such a thing as queer porn.

Ask the Sexpert: One hand if by land, two if by sea

I am happily in a long term, monogamous relationship, but my partner is in the military and is deployed. I don’t believe in masturbation – any suggestions on how to relieve the tension?

Ask the Sexpert: How to keep sex drive going strong during pregnancy

Dear Shanna,  My partner and I have decided to try in vitro fertilization to have…

Ask the Sexpert: More than a friend

Dear Shanna,
I’ve been out for almost a decade now, but my girlfriend is a newly-out baby dyke and isn’t out to her family yet. I love her and want to spend the rest of my life with her, but having her family think we’re “just” roommates is bothering me. What should I do?
– Out and Proud in Aurora

Ask the Sexpert: Gesundheit! Can I call you?

This might sound slightly weird, but I think that when I get horny, I tend to sneeze a lot more. Is this a thing, or am I imagining it? If it helps, I am a transgender guy, and I do take testosterone shots.