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Cycle sluts: If he goes lesbian on you, set him free!

Dear Cycle Sluts,
I’m dating this guy, and every time he’s about to climax he shouts out “Pop goes the weasel!” At first I thought it was cute but now it’s really annoying! I like him but I can’t take it anymore. What should I do?

HeinzeSight: Looking too hard for love

There’s the adage that you find love when you’re not looking for it. Although I don’t think that the world works that way, there are reasons this appears to be the case.

Cycle Sluts: Franks and beans and plenty of special sauce

Dear Cycle Sluts,
I am thinking about trying drag but I don’t know where to begin. What do you suggest as the starting point?
Signed, “Wigs, Dresses and Shoes, Oh My!”

Heinzesight: Does it really get better?

Growing up can be extremely hard, and life doesn’t necessarily get better. Should we wait around for it to get better, get angry, give up, or take a more active role in improving our lives? I think it’s more important to tell people not to give up instead of instilling hope that life will improve over time.

Pre-Cheating is a player’s game

  Dear Brent, I started posting profiles on gay networking and hookup sites about a…

Let him go, be the Ho Ho Ho you really are

Dear Cycle Sluts, Some friends of mine just had a baby and they’re going to…

10 ways to increase your chances of connecting

This time of year signifies the end of 2011 and all of our hopes for…

Everyone wants to do a porn star, not marry him

Dear Cycle Sluts, How do you tell someone that they are obnoxious? Signed, “Has standards.”…

Gay discrimination: is preferring one race to another racist or just taste?

Dear Brent, I am an African American gay man. I have a very good job,…

Booze enemas are for beginners

Dear Cycle Sluts, I was told that a booze enema can give you a good…